20111021 Couple Friends

I really want to have couple friends, which means that both of them are not only your and your lovers’ friends but also couples. I first learned this term from the American comedy series many years ago. At first, I didn’t think it’s very important in a relationship because I believed that in a relation everyone should keep his or her own space. Nevertheless, I have started to want couple friends because we couldn’t found couple friends to invite to dinner when celebrating the 5^th anniversary. No couple friend not means lonely dinner but also means that on one can be the bridge when we having fight, which is the most crucial reason for me. However, it’s very difficult for any couples find another couple to become friends because there are many things to be considered, such as personalities, interests, backgrounds. This could even be harder than having a boyfriend or girlfriend because it takes four people involved. Even thought I have a clear check list, I still don’t find anyone yet. Or maybe the check list is the problem?!

Dear Diary 20111018 Noises

  I hate noise, but it unfortunately happened to have one construction site next to me apartment. Now the workers are tearing the old building down, so it makes lots of noises every single day.

  At the first few days, those noises made me scared because they sounded like some terrible monsters are roaring angrily together, and those roars created the waves which might destroy my apartment.( the operation literally did make my apartment jumping ) Those noises also reminded me the night 0n 921. At that night, you can heard some strange sounds in the air, which were followed by some serious quakes that were so big to see the house shaking.

  But now, all I feel about the noise from the operation are angry because they really made me distracted from what I want to do, such as reading, studying or sleeping even. Now, the workers are just tearing the building down, so I can’t imagine how bad it could be when they start to build.

Dear Diary 20111018 Change

   I hope I can keep everything in the same condition, especially something beautiful, like my family, my friends or everything I already have or love. However, it’s impossible to hold them or keep them forever. Things can change enormously at one blink, even people.

  Even though there isn’t any change in my life, lots of things around me changed without my permission. My yoga classmates are all gone when I returned after three weeks break and two of my friends decided to go back to Tainan and moved suddenly.

  At first, I felt very surprised or even sad about their leaving, and then I somehow envied about their changes because they have the courage and the opportunity to chase their dream or make something different. That’s what I can’t achieve now. I know I need to pick u myself, but I think I need time and an opportunity.

【Dear Diary】20111017 Procrastination

  This weekend in Eslite, I found a book whose subject is about the psychology of procrastination. It's very interesting and I believer that there are lots of people will find their lives in it, just like me. 


  It's my first time to know that procrastination is a real psychological problem and  popular subject to study. There are so many reasons to cause procrastination, internal or external, but gene is definitely not one of them. I guess this can explain my mom's question, "why my daughter always do everything at the last minute? it's totally not my style!"


  I am very surprised that there are lots of people like me to have this issue in their lives because all this time I deeply believed that I was just being lazy like my mom always said. I am happy to find that it's a very important issue and there are so many smart people study it. I hope I can find some clues about solving this problem when finishing the book. 

【Dear Diary】20101221 Long time no see

剛搜尋之前的舊東家的地址，卻意外發現自己之前有一搭沒一搭的部落格列在搜尋結果之中，因為太久沒來這邊，乍看到之前所寫的文章，有一種挖出時光盒的錯覺 ，彷彿間隔了20年(有沒有那麼誇張~自己為是浦島太郎?!)

突然覺得之前把這編裝點得那麼漂亮的(厚顏無恥的自賣自誇)，怎麼沒有繼續寫下去呢?(謎之音：因為就是懶啊!~)

anyway, 就看看之後會產出什麼好了!? (怎麼有種又要為之後的偷懶鋪路的預兆?!)

Hope see you soon!